April 13 books

This week I’m featuring one of my favorite authors for older babies and toddlers:  Leslie Patricelli.

We love all the books we have by her and even my big boys love listening to them again and again and laugh out loud.  Here are a few of our favorites:

 

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Three Ways to Read

When I was a teacher it used to absolutely break my heart to hear my students tell me they couldn’t read (or write).  Let me tell you something….kids don’t think those kind of things unless someone has told them that they can’t read!

 

What we need to do as parents is tell our kids, from the day they are born, that they are readers!  I often talk to my kids about reading and how they are readers.  I even say things to Baby S like:

 

“Do you want to read?”
Let’s go read!”
“Turn the pages while we read.”
“Wow!  Look at you reading that book!”
“What is your favorite part of that book?”

 

When my big boys get bored with their toys or want my attention but I’m making dinner I am always telling them that they should go read their books.  I always explain that there are three ways to read a book:

 

TELL the STORY
This is the easiest form of reading for young kids and the one that you probably most often see kids doing.  This is where they tell the story out loud because they’ve heard it a million times.  This usually happens with books like “The Gingerbread Man” or “The Three Pigs” or others that they’ve heard over and over again, especially if the book has a common phrase that gets repeated over and over.

 

READ the PICTURES
This is where the kids look at the pictures in the book and tell the story based on what they see happening in the pictures.  This most often happens with books they haven’t heard before.  Sometimes when you hear kids doing this they will mimic real stories and say things like, “Once upon a time….” or “The end.”

 

READ the WORDS
Of course, this is the most obvious way to read.  Most of our kids won’t become real readers until they are in kinder or first grade.  But there may be some books with one word matching a picture that they could actually “read” on their own.


Here is a short (4 min) video of my boys reading.  One day I had gotten all new books at the library and while my husband and I were finishing cleaning up dinner, we found the boys on the floor in the front entryway reading and it was so sweet so my husband started recording.  Sorry for me in my sweats and the homemade video.  :)

Big Boys Reading On Their Own

If we refer to our children as readers and teach them that there are three ways to read a book, think of how confident they will be when it comes time to do the real work of reading!

 

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April 6 Books

My boys had several favorites this week…although I have to say, none of them was really my favorite.  Nelly May was pretty cute and my boys laughed and laughed.  The Nowhere Box was sweet as well and promoted my kids’  imaginations.  But sometimes my boys love books and I can’t pinpoint why!?!   I just roll with it and indulge their interests and we read them again and again.





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Again???

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Sometimes my boys bring me a book to read and I cringe because I’ve read that book a million times! But what I should do is cheer! (Ok…maybe we won’t go that far.)

Rereading books is amazing for kids for a few reasons….it helps deepen their comprehension of the text and their understanding of the vocabulary from the text. It can also make the book more accessible for them to read on their own. (see the post about the Three Ways to Read a Book) Last, it helps solidify their understanding of how books work…that there is a beginning, middle and end, that the story is always the same, and that there are problems and solutions in books.

Think about a favorite movie you’ve seen or a favorite book that you’ve read many times….mine is “To Kill A Mockingbird.” I’ve read it maybe ten times but the first time I think I was in eighth grade and the last time about 5 years ago. I’ve changed and learned a lot in those 20 years between the first and last times I read it and the book means different things to me now than it did when I was fourteen. Also, I understand it much more deeply because I’ve read it so many times.

When kids read books again and again, they understand the story so much more deeply and their depth of understanding about the vocabulary in the text is amazing! My kids often use words like: properly, scrawny, compromise, appreciate, dissipate, and commence. They use those words because they appear often in the texts that we’ve read again and again so they understand their meaning on a deep level and are able to use the words in their everyday conversation.

So the next time your kids bring you THAT book…instead of cringing….jump for joy because you will know that you are helping deepen your children’s vocabulary and comprehension skills.

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March 30 Books

My boys love, love, love these books by Karma Wilson.  They are written in rhyme and they contain some sophisticated vocabulary as well which is great because the kids want to hear them again and again.  We own every one now but our favorite is Bear Snores On.  They are all great and we recommend them all!

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March 23 Books

Another great week of books from the library.  My husband loved I need My Monster and thought the illustrations were really great too.  Several books had the boys laughing and M loved Tap The Magic Tree which also helped him with his counting.  The boys were repeating the phrase “sweet sassy malassy” from Secret Pizza Party all week and thought it was so funny!

I Need My Monster by Amanda Noll
Secret Pizza Party by Adam Rubin
Tap the Magic Tree by Christie Matheson
Sophie’s Squash by Pat Zietlow Miller
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Phone Home

A house is only as strong and stable as the foundation upon which it’s built. The foundation for learning to read is phonological awareness. It is one of the biggest predictors for future reading success. Phonological awareness refers to a hierarchy of skills which involve the ability to hear and manipulate sounds in words. They are skills which must be taught and practiced and are usually taught during pre-school and kindergarten. True phonological awareness involves only sounds. I think about it as something you could do over the telephone because there is no need for sight. It’s all about the ear.

Remember that this is a hierarchy so I’ve begun with the easiest skills and progressed to the most difficult. Here is a summary of the skills involved:

* Word awareness—knowing that words have meaning and being able to identify individual words.
children must know that a cat is an animal with four legs that says meow so that     they can properly understand the printed word

* Syllable awareness—knowing that words can be divided into parts.
bat has one syllable
puppy has two syllables

* Rhyme awareness—knowing that certain words contain the same ending parts.
tree, me, he, we, see, three, bee

* Onset and rime—the onset is the initial consonant in a one syllable word and the rime is the vowel and remaining sounds.
/s/ + /un/ = sun
/c/ + /at/ = cat

* Phonemic awareness—knowing the smallest units of sound in a word. Children must be able to segment, blend, and manipulate the individual sounds in words.
/b/ + /a/ + /t/ = bat
bat = /b/ + /a/ + /t/
change the /b/ in bat to /m/ = mat

Teachers are trained in teaching these skills and for parents it can be overwhelming so I want to offer a few ideas for helping with this so you can help lay that solid foundation.

First, talking and reading with your children is the best thing you can do because it gets their ears open to listening to new language and vocabulary. You can never read too much to your kids and it’s ok if you read the same books over and over because that’s how they learn that vocabulary more deeply and meaningfully.

Second, we play a bunch of “games” in the van while we drive that the kids love. Phonological awareness should be practiced for 10-20 minutes a day so that drive to school or the grocery store is a perfect time to get in some practice while also avoiding fights in the car! (Is it just my kids who do that???) These can be differentiated based on the child’s age.

* The rhyming game: I say several words that rhyme and have them tell me one more. As they get better at this, you can make it more difficult by saying one word and having them give you a word that rhymes. To make it easier, you can also give them three words and ask them to tell you the word that doesn’t rhyme.

* The alliteration game: I give the boys a letter sound /f/ and ask them to tell me all the words they can think of that start like that sound.

* I tell the boys a letter of the alphabet or I give them a sound and they tell me the corresponding sound or letter.

* We sing/say nursery rhymes or tongue twisters.

* I tell them a word and ask them how many syllables.

* I tell them a word and ask them to tell me how many sounds are in the word. For example, I will say “bug” or “tree” and they will tell me that each has three sounds.

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March 16 Books

This week’s library books were a hit!  The boys had several that they loved.  Here were their favorites:

Snow Day by Mercer Mayer
Runaway Shopping Cart by Kathy Long
Little Red Hot by Eric A. Kimmel
Senorita Gordita by Helen Ketteman
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How Do I Get My Child To Write?

A friend of mine emailed me with the following question:

K is only 3, (nearly 4) do you maybe have a suggestion for getting him to write letters? I know his attention span is short. I’ve tried letting him choose colored pencils or crayons, changing colors. I’ve let him do the activity part of a workbook page first. I just can’t seem to get him to write the letters. Is he just being stubborn or is he just maybe not ready for this?

Here were my suggestions for writing with young children:
  •  Make it fun!  Do writing in an authentic way.  I always make my kids write their own thank you cards for gifts, write holiday and birthday cards, help me make lists, label things, etc.

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  • Use non-lined paper.  I’ve read that kids’ eyes aren’t fully developed yet so the lines can seem to “jump” around on them.  In my experience, kids will naturally start drawing their own lines when they are ready for them.
  • Use markers, crayons, pencils, white boards, paint, etc.  Kids love to mix it up!
  • Stay away from workbook pages making kids write their letters.  These can be boring and not very authentic.  I would do them only when kids have some handwriting skills under their belt already.
  • Don’t worry about perfect spelling.  Help them stretch out the words slowly and let them write the sounds they hear in the words.
  • Start with just capital letters.  They are easier for kids to make and it’s difficult for kids to know when to use upper or lower case letters so if you stick to one in the beginning, it can be much easier for them.
  • Let kids practice writing letters in sand, shaving cream, or pudding.  You can take a big baggie full of pudding and seal it up.  Then lie it flat and let them write a letter on top of the baggie.  It’s easy to “wipe away” the letter and do it again and again.
  • Use the Verbal Path when helping kids write letters.  Say the verbal cues for each letter as you write it with the child so they begin to hear the words in their own head as they write.  Once they start practicing on their own, say the words for them as they write the letters.  Here is a link to a great verbal path guide:  http://www.montgomeryschoolsmd.org/uploadedFiles/schools/waysidees/specials/verbal_letters.pdf
  •  Start with something familiar….their name!  Then move on to “MOM,” “DAD,” and other names from your family.  They’ll be so proud to be able to write their family member’s names!
  • You can also have them label things.  Have them draw a picture and then begin to label the items with the first letter of the word.  Don’t worry about the rest of the letters, just start simple and they will be so proud!
  • Talk about authors and illustrators when you read.  Discuss what each of those jobs means and help your kids see the difference.
  • Do bookmaking.  It’s fun and kids love it!  Plus, you can work on it for several days so you can get them to write many times.  (see my previous post about bookmaking for more suggestions)
  • Refer to them as writers.  Writing starts with thoughts which they all have so if we are constantly referring to them as writers (before one might naturally assume they are writers) we are saying that their thoughts are valuable and they’ll want to write those thoughts down!
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March 9 Books

These books are so cute and even I love to revisit them. My oldest son has a little bear blankie (affectionately named Bear Bear) that he has to have with him any time he’s tired or sleeping so I can relate to little Trixie in this book. I, too, had a blankie when I was young and I bet most of you had something as well.

Mo Willems touches your heart with these books about Trixie and her Knuffle Bunny.

Knuffle Bunny: A Cautionary Tale
Knuffle Bunny Too: A Case of Mistaken Identity
Knuffle Bunny Free: An Unexpected Diversion (Knuffle Bunny Series)

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